Friday, January 29, 2016

Overcome the father



Psychologist:

Beyond all psychoanalytic theory, you know that the father it´s the law. So, all of this teenage rebellion it´s a way to transgress that law, do you undestand? All of this transgression that the kids are doing, this attemp, it´s rebelling against the law of the father and that it´s necessary.
It´s neccesary to undo that mythical father that figure that sometimes don´t let them lift the head.
The child need to break that mold, they need to disarm this world that they have given, so they can built its own. And the parents need to give the necessary tools to do it. A father needs to move and let the child arise. And this kids just beginning to tested in life, so we shouldn´t be afraid of that rebelion that they have, to that transgression, because they just want to tell you "I´m here." 
But we can´t leave it easy either, a parent shouldn´t let the child win so it can supasses it, the child have to really overcome it, and the parent needs to promote it. Well, beyond an ocassional distress I don´t see big problems here. This angels are bequeating their winds, breaking the molds, and that it´s growing up. So you don´t have another choise than stand all this  rebellions, because there are healty.


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